Adding value to your net individual worth-A non business type assessment.
What do we mean by personality? This is an oft repeated cliches which is mostly misunderstood on account of it being misrepresented. This misrepresentation is not without ulterior motives. Personality essentially means inner qualities of an individuals perceived by others. This perception is on the basis of interaction of the said individual with the rest of the world by way of thought, belief and actions.
While some of these inner qualities are inherited most of them are cultivated. Here are some tips that one can be mindful for adding value to one's personality.
1. Rise in the morning to sit calmly for a while to thank God for letting you see the rising Sun of today providing light energy to all the creatures on this planet and beyond.
2. Checkout the promises or commitments made by you to yourself as well as others and find out ways to fulfill them at all costs. Don't commit upon a request or solicitation unless you are willingly competent enough to fulfill it. Don't make it a ruse for earning pleasantries. Once committed try to die for the fulfillment of its. People in the know of things say that your personality is greatly impacted by the fulfillment of your commitments.
3. Set your routine activities scrupulously tied to the time table. This seemingly unfeatured activities of yours will feature most positively in the future when you will find that it has much to do with your longevity. Apart from that, this tunes our biological clock in such a way that we are left with enough time to do what we have thought to do. Besides, now a days health disorders are the upshot of the slipshod lifestyle.
4. Practise silence even when you are internally terbulant and agitated over any things. A delayed response to an unpleasant remarks is always laden with the possibility of controlling the situation to worsen further.
5. Eat everything of your likings but less in amount to feel fresh.
6.Develop an attitude of gratitude for the smallest deed of help caused to you by others. A heartfelt apology or appreciation works wonder towards earning goodwill. We know goodwill facilitates our tasks while ego militates them.
7.Refrain from making others being used selfishly by you if the latter happens to be influenced by by your beguiling behavior in which you are trained enough by way of your professional knowledge, experience and competence.
8. Develop a habit of asking no favor for your own unless it is indispensable. Asking for a favor devalues your worth.
9. Don't compare yourself with the others, no two individuals are alike. Try to shine independently like the Sun. Willpower is seated on the crest of power edifice.
10. Difficulties be duly acknowledged to be repressed/redressed by the resources at your command. If you are not able to do away with these let them remain as they are. Don't aggravate them by your impatience or restlessness of mind. Meanwhile focus on the augmentation of the resources that may diminish the impact of the difficulties for some of them you may realize are irrevocable.
The long and short of what I mean to say is that if people perceive you as authentic, reliable and dependable for their purpose it indicates the personality of an individual whose net worth is much more than that of person guided and assessed by the principles of business management or by the political theory of opportunism, utilitarianism and populism no matter how wealthy or powerful she/he may have been.
Rest is alright even though it does not seem to be so.
R.R.Prabhakar
24.08.2018.
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